flashbacks, privacy and safety

Flash backs

hey there!!

i love this quote its for that one person!! who will never read my blog heh heh...

im spending most of my time at home nowadays as here we are having summer holidays and i have plenty of books to read really plenty of books. i am reading the one you cannot have by preety shenoy. the story has many flash back scenes while reading i too went to my past those days and if you think i am only wondering about the days without you then no i miss the wish you as well just so many things but now i m a bit afraid if i could write i think i can write about it in future someday there’s so much may be who knows one day i will or my friend will write all these sweet cum cute memories in a book. i think this book will be a bestseller you know at the age of 15 who would believe that a person as young and innocent looking can come up with these many things.

A part of me wanted to write about ghosting and online safety plus privacy so here it comes.

ummm... have you ever been a victim of ghosting ?? well this happens with people often when they use social apps its not necessary that she/he is a stranger sometimes the very known and close people do this to us. talking about online safety and privacy then i somedays back realised that it is really important to have a private account and to allow only existing and real people to see your photos and stuff you share.

GHOSTING

its been a long time like few months when this last happened to me oh wait just few days back too it happened but i was that addicted to that particular person so it didnt hurt me much . lemme tell you about the first time it happened to me it was early December i was into someone deeply and all of a sudden he went offline like he stopped replying to me he stopped seeing my text yet he came online at the same time each day i was so desperate to talk to him and above all the main cause of all this trouble was i was into him and most probably he was avoiding me. i used to call him each day and waited him he would answer and yeahhhhhhh... he didnt most of the time when i now think when i go into flash backs after coming back from those i realise how crazy and silly i have been how irritating i have been to him but now that its all over and we are no longer in contact who cares let it be... most interestingly when you meet them in person they pretend like everything is okay and nothing ever happened between us now thats crazy !! but i still remember when we talked about it his smile was enough to make me happy that i forgot everything ever happened...

PRIVACY AND SAFETY

these are the two main things you cant realise until you get all fussed up heh heh thats the normal word the extreme one is also there but i dont believe in using abusive language i just dont no matter what happens.

privacy and safety ummm anyone ever blackmailed you ? i have been blackmailed a lot hahaha just kidding but this is somewhat true like to some extent it is it happens a bit when people around you are smartest heh heh a time came when i started removing my identity from my account like my name and my photo then a time came when i totally made it the way nobody on earth would believe its me yeah i have transformed it a bit since the last time i got stuck.

how to tackle any problem related to such things-

1.     use brain while talking dont consider anyone as your close friend in some time.

2.      dont use your personal information while talking.

3.     if you are someone like me then even photos and other things do matter a bit i keep my whole thing private.

4.     remove fake accounts

5.     only allow the few close ones to be there

6.     dont think more followers has anything to do with your social status.

thats all i have for today and well i will publish it tomorrow so see ya then byeee take care and all_love!!